The first item i would choose would be a family photograph of us on vacation, the second would be a necklace with a Jewish star on it, and the third would be a special blanket.
the photograph shows how our family is close and had a regular vacation together, a tradition. It also shows the way we like to dress, and the environment we enjoyed.
The necklace represents a gift which my parents gave me in celebration of a milestone achieved in my religious process. It is a gold necklace, which can represent the money spent and the worth it plays in supporting this accomplishment. In addition to it's symbolic representation, the Jewish star is rooted in the religion and shows our beliefs.
The third item may seem very strange for most people,but for me it is a representation of belonging. Family friends gave me the blanket when i was born, I was swaddled in it. This closeness and feeling of being surrounded is always present when I have the blanket with me. It is a comforting item. It also shows how our family and friends celebrated the birth of a child (me) and how the symbol of the blanket has stayed with me through adulthood. It provides warmth, comfort, and memories.
If i could only keep one personal item, that would be ok. Each of these items are representations of things, and the memories attached will live on beyond having the item present.
I am surprised that these items are the ones which I would keep. interestingly, i am ok with having none of these items as well. knowing who I am and remember how my family lived would be enough.
Lauren
ReplyDeleteI did not think your choice in taking a blanket was strange at all. My grandmother made quilts and if there were more items I could take to this new country it would be on my list. Like you I also wanted to take photos to look back and reflect on happier times within my family.
I think every body would take photos if possible. I agree with you that it would be fine if I could not carry any of the items I had picked. The most important thing is my family, and my memories will always be with me.
ReplyDeleteLike you, photos are one of the first I though of, but i tried squeezing in many pictures by taking a small collage. If allowed to keep only one thing, the pictures would be my choice and I would hope that my children had some as well. Parting with my bible and pictures in this age of technology...well lets say...I sure hope I end up somewhere that use of the internet is not forbidden.
ReplyDeleteWhat would you take if it was only one thing? I am curious!! Your comment about your family being most important resonates with me tonight as I was watching the devastation in Oklahoma.
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